sadly i lost a BIL today |
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A square 10
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Posted: May 03 2021 at 11:38pm |
not sure when exactly my wife was not able to fill me in on details yet with everything that happens in a time like this , but her eldest brother a few years my junior passed , if she was not working in a situation that wont allow her to come home right now i suspect i might know more but ....it was a difficult way to end the day ,
i am still trying to process this so forgive the sketchiness , im a bit in the dark at this point , they will be breaking the news to her mother tomorrow , ill be in support as needed , this was sudden and unexpected , not the mothers day i would have wished in any way for her , understand its never a good time - i only wonder at gods way of presenting at the worst time possible , we have already lost my wifes youngest brother to a TBI and a daughter that cut him off from the family , not sure how much grief her mother needed in her life - she is a good woman that devoted her life to others , she has been devout all her life , she was a pastor to those in hospice prior to her retirement years , not sure how this may effect her and her waining years , ive thought we might be dealing with her very soon , i cant say how hard this is to get old and having funerals becoming so common in my close family group , we have two weddings in early june , and now a funeral , im really getting a bit worn by all this , thankful fo any prayers and sorry to burden , but i had to at least get this out there to those that might expect the regular me here , |
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A Square, I’m very sorry for your loss. You and your wife will be in our prayers. Your mother in law sounds like a great woman, just doesn’t seem right she should lose a son.
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Sorry to hear that condolences and all the best there!
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Condolences my friend. It is always tough when this happens. Keep your chin up, your friends and allies here will help you out emotionally if needed, that is a given.
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Condolences from all of us here. Let us know if there's anything We can do.
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Condolences and prayers from mine to yours good sir...
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss and I hope your wife and mother-in-law are doing okay considering. I wish you guys peace in the trying time of dealing with the grief.
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sorry for your loss A-Square.
Condolences to you and your family. |
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im not much of praying man but my thoughts and condolences are with you and yours mate🍻
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My sincere sympathy to you and your family. Terry
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A square 10
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thank you all , ive still to hear from my wife on how the disclosure went , im hoping it went well considering , she is in a very delicate state these days with loss of communication with her youngest after his TBI a few years back , also in the early stages of the aging mental loss , im very much appreciative of the prayers and thoughts , sympathies and wishes , i am waiting on the family to tell me what they will be doing at this point , there remain three of them that will be deciding the next course of events - i will be where im asked to be doing whatever requested to do ,
there are a lot of thoughts in my head but im not the one to step into this till im told as its my wifes family , i will go with her wishes , im still digesting the fact that this has happened so unexpectedly , and right before a planned family get together set for saturday , it reminds me that life & death happen while we are making plans , there are some things i need to get in order real soon ,
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